I'm so confused about something. My ex-boyfriend, and I "broke up" about a month ago. We had a great relationship - very healthy. I know his family had a lot to do with his decision (our culture is very complicated when it comes to dating/marriage). Anyhow, it doesn't feel like we've even broken up. Everything has stayed the same. I know he has very strong feelings for me - and I for him. We talk everyday, we hang out a few times a week, we take trips and everything.

This situation is making me crazy. I want to be with him, but I just don't know how to handle things this way. Why is he like that? And how should I handle it? HELP! You say your relationship ended because his family had a lot to do with his decision. Clearly, he wants to continue your relationship, but he does not want to offend his family. At this point, he is trying to have it both ways. So, he is getting what he wants. His family is getting what they want.

He broke it off, so break it off. Don't go out with him or take trips with him. When he tells you he loves you, tell him, "That's great, but you broke up with me. Remember? You have given up the right to tell me anything of the sort." He has also given up his right to text you and expect you to talk to him every day. I'm afraid that if you continue to let things go the way they're going, you're going to get hurt.

And he'll be able to wriggle out of it by saying, "But I never led you on. We were broken up." He is keeping the connection alive without taking responsibility for it. That is not fair to you. A relationship in this half-state only prolongs the pain. Please take very good care of yourself. Bury yourself in something you've wanted to do but have put off since you started seeing Family Man. Treat yourself as a treasure he's lost and a better man will be lucky to discover.